All the broken leaders

A 10-month period is what we had in common. Ten months of misery. Ten months with a new boss focused on fixing us because we were broken.

His toolkit was full of medieval broken management cures and was toted by a sinister unsmiling sidekick. His favorites:

Only I approve purchases. Purchase approval privileges were revoked for all employees at all levels.  Invoices for equipment, office supplies, uniforms, etc. piled high in his office. Soon vendors thought we broken because we didn’t pay our bills anymore.

I decide where the money is spent. Friday pizza lunches, gift cards and morning donuts were declared a waste of money and banned. Employees started thinking we were broken, too, because all those fun and sometimes impromptu we’re-glad-you-work-here activities abruptly stopped.

Consult with me before making any decisions. Woe unto the leader who had the temerity to call a shot, even a little one. Customers and clients came to believe we were broken, too, since everyone smiled politely and said “I’ll have to get back to you on that” over and over.

Report, in writing, every thing you, and your team, did last month.  A written manuscript, with tens of pages and attachments, detailing qualitative and quantitative activities and results was laboriously prepared and submitted the first of the month. The Fixer must know where all our time was going. Soon, we thought we were broken, too, because where we chose to spend our time was always the wrong choice.

I’ll never forget the day The Fixer was asked to leave. He sat in my office and cried. I cried, too, but for an entirely different reason.

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27 Responses to All the broken leaders

  1. Cherry – those of us who lived through this chuckle (we can do that now) because people do say those stories we tell just can’t be true. They are! My writing professor once zinged me for creating fiction when the assignment was nonfiction – I had written a story about the time budget binders were thrown across a table!

  2. Jane,
    You demonstrate the power of storytelling with your terrific article. Your “me” manager really didn’t get it; nor did the person(s) who hired him and endorsed his mission.

    Thank you for sharing.

  3. What a great post & for those of us who are lucky enough to be leading teams, we should really learn what not to do.
    The sad thing is that those that manage in this way, will move on with the same style to some other poor team of people & inflict the same onto them.

    Thanks for sharing & reminiding me of how actions can feel to others
    B

    • Beki -

      What a leader does is like dropping a pebble into the middle of a pond — the ripples move on and out…and out. The effects can be positive or negative.

      I learned much throughout my career from what I call “negative role models!”

      Thanks much for sharing,
      Jane

  4. OMG, It’s like we lived the same experience with my last CEO! Nice to read it with some distance to the events as it really did do some damage to so many peoples confidence, myself included.
    So happy I have discovered your blog, think I will like reading through the archives if they are all as good as this (as @mjcarty says!)

    • T –

      Writing this post about The Fixer put me into a funk. I kept reliving everyone’s descent into self-doubt (mine, too). Many of those wounds took a long time to heal.

      Delighted that you’re checking out past posts! Michael is so kind.

      Look forward to future sharing,
      Jane

  5. This post nearly bought me to tears. I only had three months of similar behaviour, and I too cried at the end…but not because I was sad!!!
    Thank you for sharing as I continue on my road to ‘putting it all back together again’

  6. This is an wonderfully written story. I related to so much of it. On Hershey/Blanchard’s situational leadership curve this is definintely a D1/S1 situation. What a shame that there are so many people like this out there.
    May I never be like that, and may I have people I trust around me who can tell me if I begin to fall into this situation. Thank you so much.

    • Kate -

      Thanks for pointing out the Hershey/Blanchard situational leadership curve – that’s great framing for what happened here: the low competence and support coupled with the high direction.

      Perhaps we should call your last paragraph “The Leader’s Prayer”?

      Thanks much for sharing,
      Jane

  7. Jane ~ All I have to say is, “sheesh”. It is interesting to note though the number of people who, having read your story have stories of their own. Theory X is apparently alive and if not well, at least well enough to continue to do damage.

  8. Jane – I think I’ve met this leader. From other comments I take it he/she gets around a bit, or perhaps there is more than one. Do ya’ think?

    You, on the other hand, are rich in wisdom and share it generously.

    Bravo on an excellent post, and I have tissues if you ever meet said leader again.

  9. Great post Jane. I’m glad you’re still alive after working with The Fixer. It’s remarkable how often I run across these behaviors in the workplace. It’s almost as if someone wrote a manual that said leaders should work out their personal power and control issues on their employees. I’ve always been a big fan of practicing leadership behaviors that help employees be happy instead of stifling them.

    • Guy – if more leaders shared your perspective, I’d bet that employee job satisfaction wouldn’t be at its lowest levels in years. The Fixer became, for me, yet another in the long line of negative role models – great teachers of what NOT to do in the workplace. Thanks much for adding to the richness of the discussion!

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  12. Just came across your post – great example of applying fixes at the wrong level. The majority of issues that need fixing are typically generated from the top down. I was in a similar spot myself, but it was an owner, not a manager and instead of for ten months it was something new every 6 months.

    • Walt – I do hope your bad situation ultimately was resolved. It’s these sorts of situations that lead to low employee engagement. Thanks for sharing!

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